Changing roles! Do you like to try new things? Here’s a new tip for couples who want to experience a role-play during penetration. Pegging is an upward trend in which the woman penetrates the man and takes the reins of the sexual encounter. You can use your fingers, a dildo strap on, or a sex toy. In this post we want to show you roughly what pegging is, how to practice it and why to do it.

What is pegging?

This term, also known as Bend over boyfriend , was coined twenty years ago to give a name to anal penetration by women to men. It is about a change of roles in which she takes a more active role in the sexual encounter, while he happens to occupy a more passive one.

The man is penetrated , either with his partner’s fingers, a dildo , a vibrator , an anal plug , or perhaps, most exciting for both, with a dildo inserted into a sexual harness.

One of the benefits most valued by those who practice it is that they have discovered that the stimulation of the P point (located in the prostate), man’s erogenous zone, located in the prostate, is extraordinarily pleasant. So much so, that anal orgasms are said to be much more intense than those achieved through penis stimulation, either through fellatio, masturbation or penetration.

The truth is that it is a good argument to prove it. Now this brings us to the second question. How to get started in pegging. Here are some of the aspects that you should keep in mind when practicing pegging:

Communication and consensus. As in any sexual practice, and especially in those that are out of the ordinary, communication between the two is essential. Before changing roles and getting down to work, we advise you to make it clear what you want to do, how you want to practice it and how far you want to go. What’s more, remember that if you change your mind and don’t want to continue down that path, you can do it without any problem. In the same way, that, if you are the one who penetrates, you must respect the decision of your partner

Choose the most suitable sex toy. There are numerous sex toys for the practice of anal sex: anal plugs, vibrators, Chinese balls, prostate stimulators , sex harnesses in which you insert a dildo … Now, if this is the first time, the ideal would be a slim and curved sex toy that help more easily reach the prostate.

Don’t forget about lubrication . At Tocabananas we always recommend the use of a good lubricant in any type of sexual relationship, as it facilitates penetration and intensifies sensations and pleasure. Now, in the case of anal penetration, applying a specific lubricant is crucial for the experience to be a success and avoid discomfort, irritation, and even pain. And is that the anus does not lubricate naturally, so we must apply a good amount of lubricant before taking action, and if necessary, during. Remember that, if you use a silicone toy, you should choose a water-based lubricant, since, if you use a silicone one, the toys will be spoiled in a short time.

Whatever toy you use, it is essential that you clean them properly after each use. You can do it with water and neutral soap, or with a specific product for cleaning sex toys.

Relax and move forward little by little

Relaxation of the muscles of the anus is essential to be able to initiate penetration. To do this, your partner can give you a small massage while applying the lubricant or whisper some risqué words (Dirty Talk) in your ear. You can complete the scene with whatever you like the most to add curiosity to the situation, such as costumes or sexy lingerie . If you are into BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Sadism, Masochism), why not put on some handcuffs, masks or masks. Anything goes!

Once you are ready for action, you can start to dilate the anus with an anal plug little by little . If you are a beginner, better use a small one and later you can use larger ones.

Pegging postures

Both in pegging and in any other sexual practice, the positions you choose must be chosen in consensus. There are countless of them, just take a look at the book of sexual positions par excellence, the Kamasutra . Now, in the case of pegging, it might be a good idea to start with a classic, the “doggy” pose . In case you don’t know it, it is the position in which the one who is going to be penetrated gets on all fours. In this way, the penetrator has it much easier to control the intensity of the penetration, the changes of rhythm and if he wants to stop and continue by surprise.

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